What Do You Hope For Us In The Next Year? | {THE AND} Relationship Project

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What do you hope

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for us

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in the next year?

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Oh, my goodness.

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In the next year?

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Yeah.

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Um...

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Fun.

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Fun.

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What do I hope for us in the next year?

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Mm hmm.

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Maybe I'll have a third cat.

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I'll be a crazy cat lady.

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For us...

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I see us traveling.

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Road trips for sure.

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A lot of like... - I’m like: yes!

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A lot of, like, just

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making memories.

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I hope that we can travel.

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I know before the pandemic hit,

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we were going to go to Meow Wolf’s so...

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And then the pandemic hit

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and then it was canceled.

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Yeah. Then everything was canceled.

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Like the whole

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the whole entire world was like: error.

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404.

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Yeah.

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I want to travel with you.

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I really miss traveling with you.

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I think that's my number one.

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Well, for your momentum

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at work to continue. - Mm hmm.

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Because I know

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that's been great,

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and I know it boosts you

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and that you work hard.

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So I think it's deserved.

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And I think that you can

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surpass all your goals

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that you've set for yourself,

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let alone

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the company. You've already done that.

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Um, that we can...

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get our office and garage.

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Oh, yes, I forgot about that.

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Orin asked me the same question.

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Yeah. - I forgot about it.

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The office and the garage.

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The garage.

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I want to park my cars in the garage.

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Yes.

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And not your 20 year of hoarding.

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Less fighting.

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Number one. - Less fighting. That is...

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Well, sorry.

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Click, click, click.

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Um, that's the thing

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I- yeah.

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Hope for it the most. Actually. - Yeah, me too.

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Yeah. Less fighting. - Me too.

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And a really great twin therapist.

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That I think will be involved in that. - Yeah.

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Yes, agreed. - But that is what I most hope for.

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Yeah.

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And then would love for us to both

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be feeling

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really strong

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in our romantic relationships

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or where we are romantically. - Yeah.

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That we just continue to

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understand each other

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and to continue

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to grow individually and together.

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I would hope that we would be able

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to have more conversations

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like this where we like, sit down

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and actually listen to each other. - Yeah.

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And like not to expect a sudden response,

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but just to listen.

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That's mostly my fault. I’m sorry. - To listen

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like without giving like,

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oh, I think you need to ‘blank’ or

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oh, this.

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But like, just listen,

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um, for the both of us, you know,

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and I want you to feel heard

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and I want you to feel like

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you can express...

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I mean, yourself like

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bad and good, you know,

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and that you would know that, like,

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I would never hate you.

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I'm going to bring that around

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because I just don't want you to think that ever

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or like,

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even in comparison

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we're very different people.

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I hope you can hang out more.

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I don't

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I don't know what next year has in store,

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but you've been hanging out a lot

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and I hope that you can hang out

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more with us,

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with my new family.

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But not necessarily

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attached to my parents,

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because this first year

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it's like, hey, I mean,

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my parents are coming over.

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Do you want to come over?

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You know,

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but like you're your own person now,

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so I don't need to invite my parents

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to have you over.

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No.

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You know,

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so I hope that we can hang out more

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and have you over more often,

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but without my parents.

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But I also hope that

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you become more proactive, you know,

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because I do get the feeling

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that I have to invite you all the time

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and that I have to tell you,

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and that I have to be checking in on you.

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And I don't mind,

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but I want you to

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feel comfortable enough

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so you're like,

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Hey, can I come hang out?

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Hey, can I do this?

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Even if, like,

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you know,

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if you just need to get out

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of the house, of your house

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and you're like, Are you guys home?

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And we're like, No.

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And you're like,

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Can I go hang out at your house

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while you guys are away?

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I want you to feel comfortable doing that

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because it's like,

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Yeah, dude, it's a huge house.

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Just go hang out.

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I hope that we both graduate as expected

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and also that we

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find jobs

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and that we...

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we find a nice apartment

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because we're both

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moving like respectively,

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because we're both moving out.

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I also hope that we actually

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make those resolutions

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come true, that

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we... - Yeah.

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We may not actually think that they will.

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Well,

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I hope that we can see each other again

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like every month.

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Oh. I was like- - Like we've been doing.

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Well, obviously.

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Like, who are you?